How to Assist
Let the young person know that you have noticed the injuries or other signs. Avoid expressing a strong negative reaction to the self-injury and discuss it calmly with the young person. When asking the person about the self-injury, it is important that you have reflected on your own state of mind and are sure you are prepared to calmly deal with their answer.
Self-Injury is a coping mechanism; therefore, stopping self-injury should not be the focus of the conversation. Instead, look at the alternative ways to relieve the distress. Do not trivialize the feelings or situation that have led to the self-injury. Do not punish the person, especially by threatening to withdraw care. Intervene in a supportive and nonjudgmental way. Remember to remain calm and avoid expressions of shock or anger. Express your concern for the person's well-being. Ask whether you can do anything to alleviate the distress.
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